Category: Between the Ears

I caught myself this week arguing with someone in my head long before the conversation even began. By the time I finished winning the imaginary debate, I had lost something real. Peace. Maybe that’s the first clue that being right and seeing clearly are not the same thing. What if the problem is not all…

I sometimes think my future is waiting somewhere out ahead, hidden behind a big opportunity, a major decision, or the right timing. In reality, i suspect my future is already showing itself in quieter ways. Is in actually hidden in my defaults? What you do without thinking is often shaping what you become without noticing.…

A question I typically ask myself when I’m having a problem with a problem I’m trying to solve. And then I procrastinate. What looks like procrastination might actually be fear. What I keep calling a time problem may be a clarity problem. That’s why some struggles do not respond to surface-level fixes. I find that…

I don’t keep doing the wrong thing because I don’t care. I keep doing it because part of me still believes it works. That’s the part I don’t like to admit. There’s a frustrating gap between what you want and what you repeat. You want peace, but you scroll. You want discipline, but you delay.…