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Your Brain is Lazy!
Sometimes what we call laziness is not laziness at all. Sometimes it is simply an untrained default. Your brain is built to conserve energy. It looks for efficiency, repeats what feels familiar, and avoids unnecessary effort. That does not make you broken. It makes you human. The mind is always…
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Answers Are Overrated!
I caught myself the other day wanting God to hand me a clean answer for something I’ve been carrying around too long. Not wisdom. Not clarity. Just an answer I could use to get unstuck without having to look too closely at myself. I think that urge says more about…
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Talking Heads
I woke up at 3:17 the other morning with a full committee in my skull. Finances. Health. People. Deadlines. Regret. Possibility. Each voice insisting it was the most urgent thing in the room. And then, it’s 3:49! Every voice still talking! Every voice still claiming priority! That’s the lie, isn’t…
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Better or worse?
If you have ever sat in an eye doctor’s chair, you know the familiar question: “Better or worse?” A new lens drops into place, and suddenly the blurry world sharpens—or it doesn’t. We ask that same question every day with our lives, even when we do not realize it. Better…
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You Have Great Potential!
Being told you have potential sounds like a compliment—until it starts to feel like a burden. At first, it feels affirming. Someone sees something in you. They notice ability, promise, possibility. But after enough report cards, warnings, expectations, and disappointed looks, “you have potential” can quietly turn into, “you are…
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Through the Looking Glass
I wish people saw things my way. If they could see what I see, then they would understand their foolishness! When I was younger, I convinced myself that I saw reality as it really is. As if seeing reality was an absolute. As if reality were identical for all people.…