Category: Life Together

  • All You Need is Love

    All You Need is Love

    I sat in a room full of people not long ago and felt the old ache of being unseen. That kind of moment will sober you up. It reminds you that being around people is not the same thing as being connected. Life is never one thing. It is physical, mental, family, social, financial, career,…

  • I know, I know!

    I know, I know!

    Most of us trust ourselves first. We know our intentions, we know our history, and we assume that depending on ourselves is the safest way to live. In a culture that celebrates independence, that instinct can look like strength. Responsibility is good. Follow-through matters. Learning to stand on your own two feet is healthy. But…

  • Stop Giving Everyone a Front Row Seat!

    Stop Giving Everyone a Front Row Seat!

    What one specific nudge can I take today in the social area of my life? What small, concrete action can I take now to move this area closer to the life I actually want? I walked away from a conversation recently carrying somebody else’s certainty like it was wisdom. By the time I got to…

  • Less performing. More belonging.

    Less performing. More belonging.

    What would my social area of life look like if it were healthy, intentional, and aligned? What would be different in the way I think, feel, act, choose, and live? I was thinking recently about how easy it is to be surrounded by people and still be socially unhealthy. I’ve been in rooms full of…