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Hidden Future?
I sometimes think my future is waiting somewhere out ahead, hidden behind a big opportunity, a major decision, or the right timing. In reality, i suspect my future is already showing itself in quieter ways. Is in actually hidden in my defaults? What you do without thinking is often shaping…
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What If the Problem Isn’t the Problem?
A question I typically ask myself when I’m having a problem with a problem I’m trying to solve. And then I procrastinate. What looks like procrastination might actually be fear. What I keep calling a time problem may be a clarity problem. That’s why some struggles do not respond to…
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Why Do I Keep Doing What I Hate?
I don’t keep doing the wrong thing because I don’t care. I keep doing it because part of me still believes it works. That’s the part I don’t like to admit. There’s a frustrating gap between what you want and what you repeat. You want peace, but you scroll. You…
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Calling Survival “Normal” is Not Healthy
I know people whose lives are full of drama and crisis. And they are aware of it! They acknowledge that things could be different. They acknowledge they want different. And yet… Some people call survival normal because it is familiar. Familiar does not mean healthy. It just means repeated. Repeated…
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Move First, Understand Later
I was pondering a decision the other morning. A decision in front of me that felt much bigger than it was. Not a life overhaul. Not some dramatic reinvention. Just one small move I knew I could make. And I still caught myself waiting to feel more certain before I…
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Obedience vs. Outcome
Jesus follower. I have been thinking lately about what obedience is. Because I think a lot of people use the word like it means being nice, disciplined, or vaguely spiritual. It doesn’t. Obedience is saying yes to God. To His authority. To what He has already made clear in His…